Alert from S.W.O.P.: Providers Beware! "Band Scam" Targeting members of Community

There is a nationwide alert being put out regarding a "band scam" that has been targeting members of the escort community. This individual has robbed,raped and beat many escorts of thousands of dollars and abused many more. please alert all providers regarding this scam. he has been mostly targeting providers who advertise on EROS in all states.

He states that he is the manager of some band (Godsmack, Stone Sour, Stone Temple Pilots, Nickleback, Pearl Jam, and other have been used) and that a band member would like to fly the escort down to Florida for a few days. He pays for transportation and then proceeds to rob escort of credit cards or refuses to pay fees, etc. Oftentimes the credit cards he charges the plane fares with are stolen from other providers.

His initial correspondence almost always resembles this email-

Hello my name is Larry Mazer I am Founder and Artist Management Director for Entertainment Services Unlimited. We are a management corp. that represents various musical talent. One of the groups we represent is the band Stone Sour.T he drummer, Ray Mayorga had recently seen your ad on line somewhere, while he was in Chicago recently, and had wanted me to try and schedule an overnight appt. w/ you while he was there. However there just wasn't time for that while he was there. His schedule was very tight at the time and there just wasn't any way to make it happen. He is now in S. Florida and had apparently saved your info. He has once again asked me to try and contact you to see if you would be willing and available, to travel to Miami to spend a few days there with him. He is currently there dealing w/ a new house and several cars that he has recently purchased there,. I can tell you that this would be for at least Two days, but could very well extend to several days,depending on how well the two of you get along, as well as what your schedule will allow. As I said, I will guarantee you a minimum of Two days to make sure that it is worth your time. I will tell you in all honesty, I tried to talk Ray out of bringing someone across the country for this (or close to it, as there are allot of beautiful women in the Miami area that I could get to spend time w/ him there, however he has his mind made up his mind that he wants me to try to get you to come. So since that is what he wants to do, that is what I'm going to attempt to make happen. So you understand we have a full, in house travel dept. that will take care of all your travel needs, (i.e. flight, hotel, rental car, etc.) and have e mail confirmations sent to you prior to your leaving. this will all be done after we are able to get all the necessary details worked out between us. Once we are able to get the logistics of everything worked out between us, I will have to have you speak to him directly to make sure that both of you are comfortable w. each other and that this will be a definite go. He will obviously have the final say in all of this, as it is his money that I will be spending on all this. If you could get in touch w/ me at your earliest convenience I would greatly appreciate it as he wants me to try and get you here right away . You can either e mail me at this addy. or simply call me at 561-755-**** Honestly calling me is probably best as it will make things easier and faster. Thanks for your time in reading this extremely long e mail but I just wanted to try and give you as much info as poss. so you can do your due diligence and we can proceed as quickly as poss. Thanks again and ttys, Larry

To read more about this asshole PLEASE go to 

 http://800notes.com/Phone.aspx/1-561-891-5897

Please spread the word to escorts not to fall for this scam. The individual involved has a lengthy arrest record and is very dangerous!

Recently read a blog about why top tier experienced escorts are leaving the business and her take wasn't the economy

it was dealing with idiot clients or those that wished to become them. I think shes right, the bullshit has increased. Maybe because escorting is more accessible to the masses so there's a bigger pool of numb nuts who spend their time sending out inquiries. I don't know the why of it but i know it happens. A recent inquiry i got seemed to fit right in with this theory. I was contacted via a screening service, the potential client had seen a couple other legit girls (though their rates were a quarter of mine)  and they had vouched for his legitimacy. That's always a good thing but this is the email he sent... verbatim.

"Just arriving in town and looking for a grerat time before I leave. Looking for a 2-3hr. appt. with trips to the Greek Isles if possible. Outcall if possible... dOUBLES ALSO IF POSSIBLE"

Oh take me away prince charming. I really am worth you at least running a spell check over your inquiry as i don't generally provide "grerat" times. I'm spelling challenged myself but at least put in the bare minimum of effort, no one wants to deal with a lazy client, and you just showed me you are in fact lazy. Also what's with the capricious capitalization on the thing about the doubles? Does it being mostly in all caps mean that its really, really important i bring another chick with me? The obvious glaring problem with this email is that this potential client uses stupid code for anal sex thinking that somehow that will circumvent the need for discretion. It doesn't. You can say it what ever super secret code you like, its still being indiscreet and its really fucking annoying to get that kind of email from a complete stranger whom you have never communicated with before. The second issue is of course there no dates associated. Oh sure stranger who just broke escorting inquiry rule number one I'm free all the time 24/7 at your convenience, I'm really hoping you will pay me money to stick your dick in my pooper and I'll bring a random friend!

rule number one is discretion and discretion isn't just I'll not look like a 3 dollar whore when i show up to your 5 star hotel, its that you don't ask me to exchange sex for money .... in email, on the phone or in person. I don't care if you have a million other girls you banged vouch for you you. Screening services have all been infiltrated at one time or another to some degree they are not 100% fool proof.  Don't do it, don't ask for sex in an inquiry. We all know why we are here, you pay, i provide. If you need it spelled out for you then you are looking for trouble!  i would guess the proliferation of the word GFE in association with myself all over my website with never a mention of PSE might be your first fucking clue.

          I know, you fucked some hookers. You're an expert at finding some top notch pay for play pussy and you've minimized your risk to almost nil. You're a message board regular, new dudes look up to you because they think you have the inside track on whore screwing and where to find the "diamonds in the rough" Why wouldn't they, look at the plethora of reviews you have, hell you even go to those hooker/trick parties where everyone's supposed to play nice (but rarely do) your a big swinging dick, a big man on campus, a master pay for sex  fucker.

yeah yeah yeah ....I get it.

But lets not kid ourselves you fuck whores you don't have the inside track on whore business. Fucking escorts and knowing the intimate details of their business isn't the same thing and i for one am getting pretty tired of seeing some dude who's poked a few women act and spew like hes is all knowing about the back end of  whoredom. You only hear what they want to tell you and face it, were master liars.  escort biz  during pillow talk its likely not accurate or wholly accurate, hey we might even be seeing how much bullshit you will readily eat up for our own amusement.  I knew a girl who used to do this and then write about it on a ladies board "Omg you wont believe what crap he ate up this week"  don't worry fellas shes retired.

This will illustrate how much i know

We will also use our intimate relationship with you to further our agendas to help steer the conversation the way we want to. Its true we will. I wish we didn't have to but the advent of the message board made that an imperative. We cant just place ads, see clients and go on our way because there's always some egomaniacal ass hat trying to stir up the shit with some girl or another to draw attention to himself, (the powerless always act like this) so we have to back-channel and do tons of reputation management. Some are more overt then others but we all do it to some degree.

I know not YOU, you have "friends" that are escorts, they confide in you so you are sure you know the ebb and flow of the business. Where its busy, where its dead, who's busy who's not where are the secret money spots are how many appointments a day, week, month, year specific girls take... i got news for ya, you don't know shit.

I saw it again a little while ago, another whore screw-er on another board announcing because he had "friends" who were escorts and hundreds of reviews and board posts that he know more about the business than the actual working escort he was debating on the subject. Of course he knew more he was the fucker.. she was just a whore and as all the big swinging dicks on the messages boards know whores are stupid. I mean if they weren't then they wouldn't be making several 100 dollars an  hour, running their own business and living an antonymous life of their choosing... cuz only stupid people do that.

No one likes this guy

Hobbyist need to get back to what they do best, paying to see girls and in the process they need to get their noses and out of the business end of escorting. Unless they are pimps or agency owners in which case they need to get a quick case of the fuck offs and dies  cuz that kinda scum isn't welcome. So which is it whore fucker or whore know-it-all you cant be both and unless you wanna jump in the game and start sucking some dick for cash, i would suggest you chose the first.

I get asked a lot "who sees escorts"? Most people think its what they see on TV streetwalkers like on HBO's hookers on the point who see convicts who just need to bust a nut after being locked up for 7 to10. I guess thats one element but i've never experienced it.

In my experience it really breaks down like this ...

90% are married or involved men. They are missing something in their relationships (intimacy, sex, variety maybe all of it) and they rationalize to themselves that it's not "cheating" because they are paying for it.

The guy who's crossing it off their list of things to do, like skydiving. If it were legal he'd go once in a while. He's usually single and in a dating dry spell. The casual user

The guys who would never get laid without it. Nice guys, NO game. They are uncomfortable around women; they don't look you in the eye. They will never be the guys who pick up the tasty piece of ass at the bar. So he rents her by the hour.

Then there's the ones that I do my best to screen out. They always need to tell you how attractive they are. They make a point of letting you know that they don't "have" to pay for it and usually they're right. They are good-looking guys with lots of game and plenty of charm. They could go out and pick up hot girls every night of the week. They talk the talk and walk the walk. They call an escort because they are lazy. As a result they are resentful they have a "service me" attitude they are lazy lovers and treat you like a whore. yuck.

They are your brothers, your husbands, your fathers, and your sons. They are rich, poor and everything in between. They are of every color of the human rainbow All kinds of men hire escorts.

If they didn't... i'd be out of a job!

 Drunk caller. Yes, i can tell you're drunk even though you are not slurring, how you ask? well its 2:19 am when you called to "check my availability" Yes i was asleep and yes you did wake me up. I'm sorry I'm wasn't the tweaker ho up all night, ready on a moments notice, dying to invite you over to her incall that you were looking for. Had you read my site (ha! yeah right) you would have seen that i generally need 24 hours advance notice for incall anyways and outcall if you call at 2:19am means i cant be ready until 3:19 (well hell i was asleep an hour is good time) then travel time to get to you 4:19 (its LA there's even traffic at night) and well you're passed out by then and I'm left pounding on your front door in a fit of rage while the sun come

See how that goes mister middle of the night drunk caller? Just jerk off when you're drunk and calling escorts in the middle of the night, in fact how about this, DON'T call them and annoy them. You're not serious and you wouldn't be any good in the sack anyways. I mean your DRUNK, its late and lets face it you probably have issues in that arena anyways.

I'm just far to responsible to be available to drunk guys right before dawn and ruin my whole next day due to lack of sleep and having to deal with horny disrespectful drunks. I know, i know i have to remember to tun off my bat phone when i go to bed.... next time!

If you live in a 5 million dollar house in the hills high above LA. If you spend half of the time you book with me bragging about your wealth and all that you have. If you expect me to be impressed with your material achievements and to visibly show you how impressed i am with many ohhs and ahhhs and oh wows and then expertly drop to my knees and suck your cock like a champ because you're such the big man on campus...

THEN FUCKING TIP ME.

I'd be much more impressed with a couple extra bucks quietly slipped in my pocket then the boat you want to blah blah blah and endless drone on about ..... while i giggle and flip my hair like the Barbie doll you mistakenly thought i was.

Im sorry but pretending like i'm impressed with your stupid stuff .... is EXTRA.
                       

                                Are you a cop

It's one of the more prevalent urban legends in the sex for money game, believing that if you ask an officer of the law straight out "are you a cop?" he or she must answer truthfully and spill his little law enforcement guts. Somehow asking that magic question will free you and you will no longer be eligible to go to the clink for doing something illegal.

Nothing could be further from the truth. Let me make this very clear.. cops are allowed to LIE. they can do all kinda of things when undercover to try to stop the bad guy (in this case consenting adults who want a little transacted naked fun) when working a drug case they can not only sell dope, but use it... what in the world makes people think that on a sex for money sting they couldn't do the same. Though i have been lucky enough to not ever have to come in contact with that side of the biz, i know ladies who have. Cops can touch you, get naked and of course LIE. I personally know a escort who after having sex with the undercover was arrested. Talk about insult to injury, his word against hers. Is that common? doubtful but that doesn't mean it can't and doesn't happen. What they can not do is entrap you, let me rephrase that. If they entrap you (ie though their actions convince you to commit a crime you were not already predisposed to) you have a good chance of getting that charge dropped at court. You still get arrested, finger printed, photographed and you still have to hire a lawyer and go to court. That solicitation charge is still on your record. Expunged records still have a footprint, so even if you go to all the expense and effort to get that charge wiped from your record someone somewhere will be able to see at some point you've been arrested.

                 What's In A Name

In escort , hookers , names , prostitution , symantics
Hooker
Whore
Call-girl
Escort
Provider
Prostitute
Courtesan
Lot lizard
Streetwalker
Concubine
Harlot
Lady of the evening
Moll
Working girl
Lady in red
Tart
Painted lady
Jezebel
Midnight cowboy
Pro
Chicken
Ho
Jinetera
Pink pants

Yeah, i'm all those things and more. Did i leave any out? Does the name we slap on it make it any different? I'm partial to "hooker" however i more closely resemble "courtesan" Vote with your wallet
In hobbyists , hookers , money , prostitution , providers , sex , vote

                        Who doesn't love Hookers and who doesn't love reality TV! I know i do.

welcome to my new show..... America's Next Top Hooker

The Pitch: a cross between Top Chef and Americas Next Top Model. 10 Ho's from all different parts of the biz, track walkers, Craig's List girls, highly reviewed escorts, high end very expensive courtesans live in a house together and compete in "Ho events" to gain the title "America's Next Top Hooker" oh and some kinda outlandish prize like money (hookers love money)... TBD ;)

The challenge events could get pretty outrageous... but for TV they might have to be toned down. Boo!

Catch Phrase: Every reality based lifestyle career game show needs a catch phrase these days. "you're fired" entered the popular vernacular and will forever be associated with Mr Trump, others maybe haven't fared so well. "this is your last cut" "please pack your knives and go" "you are NOT America's next top model" so a good catch phrase can carry a show. For Americas next top Hooker i suggest these catch phrases... (other suggestions welcome)

1. Take your envelope and go
2. leave the money on the night stand and get out
3. that was your last blow job

Networks: So of course Playboy TV is on the pitch list as well as HBO and Showtime (Showtime is the new HBO anyways) but maybe Comedy Central would have balls big enough to take a risk with this new reality based prostitution game show... even though their budgets are well known for being ridiculously low. The comedy gold possibilities are endless!

I think it could work, its got everything. Sex, sexy girls who will probably hate each other and do nasty shit to each other behind each other backs oh and sex.. of course you will need a crack legal team because anytime there is prostitution in the mix you gotta make sure all bases are covered and no one goes to the clink for a another dumb reality show .... I think the public is ready and with the success of celebrity rehab i think they will eat this new show up... hey America loves dug addicts why not hookers!

I'm pitching it i swear i am... steal my idea and die :)

Somethings to keep in mind if you are considering getting into the sex business. Which again i don't recommend.

1. Being a hooker is the WORST way to ‘explore" your sexuality. The number one wrong reason to get involved in the pay for play world. Hookers don't love sex so much we are compelled to sell it (though may of us are wired hotter then the average bear) we love MONEY. This is a job, work, a business, where we use our emotional labor. If you want to explore your sexuality put an ad on the Internet and just be a slut like normal people who want to experience new sexual adventures. Being a hooker isn't the justification you need, for whoreish behavior or a good place for you to attempt to confirm your fuck-ability.

2.Don't let a "hobbyist" become your guidance counselor. Though some dudes have been around the block enough to know a thing or two they don't know what its like to be a hooker, they only THINK they do because they pay for them. You will get most of your bad info from well meaning and not so well meaning hobbyists. Oh and they are always angling for a freebie. They are not helping you out of the kindness of their hearts, they are waiting for it to pay off.

3.Be smart, attack this like any other job. Learn all you can read all you can, use your critical thinking skills, put together a business model. If you insist on being a hooker then so be it but use your brain, trust your instincts, listen to your inner voice what the world doesn't need any more of is another dumb Ho.

 Client Vrs Hobbyist
Lots of different guys like to screw hookers. They are from every walk of life, every income bracket, every race, creed or color. There's no way to single out a group of men and say " those guys dont/haven't/never will bang a hot chick in exchange for cash" they all do it, have done it, will do it. Now the common term for pay for play companionship for those in the subculture is... "the hobby" yep fucking hookers is now a hobby, yanno like building model cars or collecting stamps. The common term for a man who fucks hookers on the regular is a "hobbyist" yep hes just engaging in a little fun past time like building a ship in a bottle. Though i dont like either of those terms i use them because they have become the lingo of the culture and its just easier (hey I'm lazy) I however am no fan and have made it no secret that I'm no fan of ... the hobbyist. Don't get me wrong i love men who fuck hookers. Hey they keep me employed and put food on my table. I like to call those men, clients. A client is a man who screws hookers. A hobbyist is a man who not only screws hookers but delves so deeply in the culture of fucking hookers that they think it makes them special... that they fuck hookers.

Newsflash: hookers get paid to screw you, its not like its a hard thing to make happen. It sure as fuck doesn't make you special because you have a spare 500-1500 bucks for a little pay to play nookie. Its like the guy who thinks because hes got 150 to spend on a limo to go out to the club that that some how makes him special and not a douche-bag. Really hes trying to impress other people with his means and that's what hobbyists do, spend a shit load of time trying to impress others that hes special because he fucks hookers, spends his days posting on message boards about fucking hookers, back channeling (normal people call this gossip and sabotage) about hookers and finally writing review, after review, after review about fucking hookers. Like who ever has the most reviews of fucking hookers gets into heaven first or something.

As a hooker with reviews i try to keep them to a manageable amount, i dont want every encounter detailed in all it's hot sweaty glory for all the world to read. I want just enough so that potential clients know I'm legitimate, that i provide what i say i do and that I'm currently working. So when a client asks me if i would like them to write a review as they are walking out my hotel door, i usually just say "not unless you really want to". Most of my clients are way too busy with lives outside of their hooker fucking pastime to sit down and detail every detail.

A hobbyist will always write a review. As I've said before its more fun if you get to brag about it after. Or if you get to slam a girl after you've paid to fuck her. Now there's nothing wrong with being a steady reviewer but when you mix that with a constant hooker message board presence you get, "he hobbyist". One who not only writes a review for everything but think hes an authority on all things hooker related. A hobbyist loves to tell hookers how to run their business as if someone who shells out cash for sex knows what its like to be on the other side of the fence.
A client, pays his fee, spends his time with you and then goes home to his life ... because he HAS one.

Clients are the goal

Clients are what escorts want, they are low drama, they don't demand discounted or free services because you are running 15 mins late, they call when they are going to be late. They don't threaten you with their stature on a message board to get you to provide a service you don't want to, They don't stand you up after weeks of planning then blow it off because what are you gonna do complain and if you do that they will just hit the men's only website and call you names and blah blah blah about you... Clients treat you well and are respectful of you and your time. Clients treat you like people they like, who are providing a service they want.

You can spend minutes,hours,
days,weeks or even months
over-analyzing a situation
trying to put the pieces together
 justifying what couldve,wouldve happend.
 or you can put the pieces on the floor
and move the fuck on ......

 Sometimes we need to stop analizing the past ~ stop planning the future ~ ~ ~ stop trying to figure out precisely how  we feel ~ stop deciding with our mind what we want our heart to feel ~ sometimes we just need to go with............. " Whatever happens ~ happens "........

 Escort mode
In hobbyists ,hookers  ,prostitution

The elephant in the room is im a hooker
I've been escorting for years and been involved in the sex business in one for or another for even longer. It will effect how you see the world and how you do things. Some positive, some negative. The sum of my experiences makes me who i am, motives me and shapes my world view. Being an escort isn't about your needs, your sexuality or you anything. Its a service industry job. you are there to serve another's needs. I get approached all the time by young hopefuls as i like to call the. Many right after some big glossy pretty exciting hooker story breaks in the news. They want to be escorts because they think its glamorous, they want to control men with their sexual prowess, they want to explore their new found sexuality and get paid for fucking hot sexy men who they'd  fuck anyways for free. Yeah,  its not like that.  Escorting isn't about your needs, its about your clients needs. I try to tell those young hopefuls as much and often refuse to help guide them and  mentor them. Instead preferring to direct them to their local hook up website where they can explore their sexuality and learn to exercise their new found pussy power.

 Your egos in the way
In escort ,hookers ,prostitution ,sex work

yeehaw

Its a big fantasy among men, 2 girls in the sack, willing, slutty and ready to go. So its often ordered by men who fuck hookers. They want you to bring a friend. I oblige whenever i can. I love my sexy escort fiends and i also love being the bearer of cash to my sexy escort friends. Cuz lets face it it all comes down to the cash.

I often find it amusing that these guys who in most cases cant satisfy one women in the sack want to get two women at once in the sack. Of course with those types its never about real connection, intimacy or mutual satisfaction its about serving them, getting them off. You know going in that this appointment will not just be work, it will be a LOT of work. Cie la vie that's why i charge the big bucks, I'm always down to work and earn my keep.

What i never find amusing is the attitude of some chicks who do doubles and i bet what you think it would be. It's the girls who have to be the center of attention, okay not really the girl that has to be the center of attention its the girl who has to be the center of the attention and gets pissed when she isn't. So as a result she does all she can to get the client to be all about her and if and  when the client pay any attention to the second girl in the bed ( i mean he did order two) she gets pissed, acts out, gets annoyed and becomes a total drag. I mean who wants to be naked and fuck a girl with a bad attitude. I dont.

I Heart Hundys

I've encountered this situation more then i should and i would understand if this were a civvie real world sexual encounter of there was competition among naked girls but for a JOB? Are you fucking kidding me? I get paid the same amount if i stand on the corner twiddling my thumbs or if I'm sucking dick for 60 minutes at break neck speed. Tell me which activity do you think id rather make 600 bucks for? So i dont get when a provider whoes getting her money regardless, turns a 3 some working situation into a competitive hour of desperately trying to get her ego stroked.

As my best pal who is a bartender says "when I'm working with another bartender i dont get all made if the customers like the other guy more then me, we still split the tips at the end of the night" But there's a certain segment of escort who will actually get angry if a client pays attention to the other of the two girls he hired to get him off and fulfill his fantasy. It's fucking weird and smacks of lots of emotional damage. Those girls are letting their egos get in the way of their cash flow. I wont book them again next time a regular wants me to bring a girl with me. Though i dont mind not working for my cash its an uncomfortable situation and the clients wants a threesome not a twosome with one of the girls sitting in the corner checking her blackberry because one girls ego is too big for the room. Its .. uncomfortable,it doesn't serve your client, and it cuts into your profit margin.  This business is about making money, not about feeding your own damaged hooker ego.

The smart girls remember that